Two Years Married to My Best Friend

May 21, 2011 stands as the happiest day of my life. Better than bid day 2001 at the University of Florida. Two years ago, I married my best friend.

I told Josh (between tears) during our rehearsal dinner that he was the most interesting person I knew. That is really the best compliment I could pay someone with whom I will spend the rest of my life. Caring, smart, supportive, handsome, well-dressed, funny, anticipating my moments of hunger…all bonuses. But interesting is something harder to find.

Josh, I am so proud to be your wife. Marrying you is the best decision I’ve ever made. I’m so glad you asked! I love our adventures, whether traveling or bee-bopping locally. And I love the moments when we are just at home on the couch with our little family…our pups.

I wanted so badly to remember every second of our wedding day and still vividly recall so many details and happy moments. Josh once told me, “I think Heaven will be us reliving our wedding day.” I have to agree. The sun was shining along the Indian River in beautiful Stuart, Fla., we were surrounded by the people we love most in the world, the drinks were flowing, the band was playing, and I’d just married my favorite person. It was the best day!

Our amazing photographer Esther Louise captured moments we’ll forever cherish. Here are a few {More details and photos from our wedding day in this Style Me Pretty post from 2011}. Happy anniversary, my JDA!




Happy birthday, Mom!

My mother, Pamela Waxler Fogt, is an angel on Earth. It was her plenty-somethingth birthday this week, and while I couldn’t be with her in person to celebrate, I hope she’ll feel my long-distance love through this list of reasons why I admire, adore, love and am thankful for her.

The reasons are endless, but (in no particular order) I’ll stop at around plenty-something:

  • Her voicemail messages
  • How sentimental she is
  • Her green thumb
  • Her civic leadership
  • How proud she is of us kids
  • How she’s managed to look past bratty teen ‘tude moments and remember me as a good kid
  • Her killer gift-basket-making skills
  • Her organization and event-planning skills
  • Her love of Old Florida history and the arts
  • Her desire to protect and support local culture
  • Her volunteer’s heart
  • Her endearing lack of texting skills
  • Her commitment to community
  • Her gift-wrapping skills – while we’d love her thoughtful gifts regardless of their packaging, the love that goes into those details is appreciated
  • Her tuna salad sandwiches
  • How gorgeous she is
  • Her blonde moments – Lord knows I have them too
  • How she pretended to love fishing more than she actually did when she first started dating my dad
  • The hometown newspaper clippings she takes time to mail me
  • How cute it is that she listens to Olivia Newton-John – It’s just so darn cute for some reason
  • How much she loves my dad and the example they’ve set for us kids
  • Her ability to accessorize
  • Her ability to forgive
  • How she used to bring a tray of breakfast, complete with a vitamin, upstairs to wake me up during many a school morning. I know. This is amazing. I didn’t deserve it, but I am not a morning person.
  • Her financial advice
  • How she asks about my friends all the time and truly wants to know details of their lives because she loves them too
  • Her love of God
  • How we cannot go to the grocery store without her running into someone she knows
  • Her adventurous spirit and globe-trotting trips with my Godmom Pam – I want to be like you two when I grow up.
  • Her laugh
  • How she used to stay up late waiting for me to come home and make curfew. Mom, I am sorry for the nights I made you worry. I am sure I will do the same.
  • How good of a sport she was at my bachelorette party, laughing and clapping all the way amid the beer-chugging contest and the drag queens. Yep.
  • Her Delta shine
  • Her kitchen prowess
  • Her deep and long-lasting friendships with her girlfriends
  • The Monkey Milkshakes she used to make
  • I’ll hit a few more foods on this one: Her tuna casserole, No Yolk noodle soups, grilled cheese sandwiches, cheese grits, 5-cup salad…
  • What a softy she is
  • How even the simplest family dinner is sure to include a lit candle somewhere if mom has anything to do with it
  • Her gift closet
  • Her handwritten notes
  • Her voice
  • How she represents the very definition of kindness
  • Her treasure hunting skills / ability to find the look for less
  • How she seems to cry when she sees me cry
  • How I can count on one hand the number of times I’ve heard her curse
  • How she enjoys white wine and keeps my glass full as well
  • How she helped decorate my college dorm and sorority house rooms like we were on “Trading Spaces”
  • The memories she (and dad) have given me of bedtime stories and/or bedtime songs
  • The patience she exhibited during trail-blazing family trips – dad has proven he can take a rented Ford Taurus just about anywhere
  • All the graduations she and dad sat through
  • Her sometimes unruly but beautiful wavy hair
  • How she will do just about anything to help or support members of her family
  • Her Christmas card letters with updates on every member of the family, which I used to groan about but now appreciate and will enjoy looking back on always
  • How far she and dad willingly drive to visit us kids, who moved away from our wonderful hometown of Stuart, Fla.
  • How she’s always asking if we want anything to eat – no one will ever starve in her home
  • How she (and dad) made it to every home game they could for every sport Alex and I played
  • Her health-conscious grocery shopping decisions
  • Her collection of Tri Delta tree ornaments
  • Those days she’d hang out in the car or kill time noodling around at Stein Mart during my middle and high school volleyball practices
  • How as a full-time working mom, she made me feel more loved and supported than any child could hope for

I love you, mom. Happy birthday! Love, Allie